Teachable Woman Podcast
Relationships Part 10-Through it all, God's Love Never Waivered
Reverends Michele Owes and Diana P. Cherry
Introduction:
In this episode of the Teachable Woman Podcast, Reverends Michele Owes and Diana P. Cherry, also known as the Teachers of Good Things, engage in a thoughtful discussion about relationships, specifically touching on the topics of divorce, patience, forgiveness, and godly living in challenging situations. The reverends provide spiritual insights and practical advice on how to navigate the complexities of life, especially when dealing with separation, whether it's from a spouse or co-parent. Through their transparent sharing, they encourage listeners to keep Christ at the center of their lives, regardless of circumstances.
Key Points and Highlights:
I. Reflections on Divorce
Rev. Michele Owes and Rev. Diana P. Cherry revisit their recent discussions on divorce, emphasizing that while divorce is a choice, it carries consequences. They remind listeners that even after divorce, especially with children involved, ex-spouses remain part of each other’s lives, and Christians must continue to treat them with respect as children of God.
II. POP Living: Patience and Grace
Rev. Cherry summarizes the concept of "POP Living" – putting on patience. This practice encourages individuals to respond to challenging situations with grace, patience, and a spirit-led approach, allowing God to guide their responses, even when others push emotional buttons.
III. The Temporary Nature of Life's Storms
Both reverends highlight the biblical phrase "it came to pass," noting that life’s difficulties are temporary. Just like storms that cause damage but eventually pass, personal challenges must be navigated with faith, patience, and wisdom, trusting that God will provide the strength to move forward.
IV. The Importance of Respect in Communication
A major theme of the discussion revolves around communication, especially in conflict. Rev. Owes emphasizes that the way parents communicate with each other has a lasting impact on children. She encourages respectful dialogue, particularly to ensure children are not negatively influenced or harmed by disrespectful behavior.
V. Responsibility and Grace in Relationships
Rev. Cherry reminds listeners not to carry unnecessary burdens or guilt, especially when things don’t work out in a marriage. She emphasizes that God’s grace is sufficient to help people through these trials and that one’s personal worth isn’t diminished by a failed relationship.
VI. The Role of Children in Separation
Both reverends strongly advise against using children as pawns in marital or co-parenting conflicts. They stress that, as long as children are safe, both parents should have a meaningful relationship with them. This ensures balanced development and prevents long-term emotional harm.
VII. God's Unconditional Love
In closing, Rev. Owes and Rev. Cherry remind their audience that God’s love remains constant, no matter their circumstances. Whether divorced, widowed, or single, listeners are reassured that they are deeply loved and valued by God, and He has a plan for their lives, regardless of past choices or challenges.
Summary:
This episode of the Teachable Woman Podcast provides spiritual guidance on handling difficult life situations, especially divorce and relationship struggles. Reverends Michele Owes and Diana P. Cherry emphasize the importance of patience, grace, and respect in relationships, while also reminding listeners of God’s unconditional love and the fleeting nature of life's challenges. They encourage keeping faith at the center of all decisions and interactions, promoting healing, personal growth, and positive relationships, especially for the sake of children.
